Demystifying "UNCONDITIONALISM" :

Unconditional love is a very simple concept that we most often convolute in our heads to defend ourselves from our biggest fears - to be exposed and vulnerable. I decided today that I will mend all broken relationships, apologize to everybody I hurt and love unconditionally. This is only a little different from the past - it is egoless. The EGO is warrior in our soul, it fights when it senses destruction and at times when it senses no threat, it fears that the other person is conspiring and lurking in the dark to attack and starts the battle. There is no battle today and there will be no battle tomorrow if there are no expectations. I promised myself that I will accept with expecting and in the last two days I feel no pain, no fear, no apprehensions and no doubts. This is the life I always wanted.

I feel only love and nothing negative. I know the least that I can expect in any relationship and I expect nothing more. Be it parents, who will care for me or friends who will immortalize me by make lasting memories with me or a husband who can love me or a sibling who can worry for me when I communicate pain, I know what I will get and I expect no more. Any additional attribute or emotion that each one of these relationships bring will bring an additional smile on my lips. I know there is so much love in the world - to give and to take. I promised myself that I will love without thinking about hurt and circumstances. Why worry about today and deprive myself and others of the love we deserve? I have a chance to make a difference and I will be the difference.